LGBTQ Advisory Commission

Today was the Installation Ceremony of the LGBTQ Advisory Commission at City Hall.

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Mission:

The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning (LGBTQ) Advisory Commission seeks to improve conditions affecting the cultural, social, economic, political, educational, general health and well-being of LGBTQ individuals and their families, by studying and developing – through partnering with various groups and multiple levels of government – policies, programs and practices to recommend to the Mayor and Municipal Council.

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Hi Kitab!

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I love the architecture of this building!

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Our mayor, Cory Booker, addressed the room.

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Time to take the oath!

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Congrats Perris!

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Congrats, Darnell {the Commission CHAIR!}!

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After everyone got sworn in, Darnell said a few inspiring words.

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Congrats to the whole new Advisory Commission! You have Brick City Love’s support.

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Bedside Tables

A few weeks ago, I posted about our bedside tables that I was making.

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Well I finally got around to finishing them up.

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See, we only have about 12″ on either side of our bed.

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Everything I found in the stores was wider than we had space for.

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So I made something. Of course.

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I started by thinking about our needs. It needed to:

  • Be 12″ or less wide
  • Hold a laptop
  • Have a place to charge our peripherals
  • Have a place to hold all the other random little crap we need at hand
  • Not have so much storage it becomes a catchall for anything we don’t know where else to put

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Our laptops can either sit on top of the tables or in the first shelf. The basket holds little essentials like the remotes, extra chargers, & cough drops.

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My phone fits nicely next to the basket and all the wires come in from the pre-existing holes on the interior sides of each table. Both shelves are also lined with the same fabric as the bedskirt & {eventually} headboard.

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I like how they curve back on the sides.

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Can you tell what they’re made out of??

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Fall in New Jersey

While visiting our parents this weekend, we drove past this tree. It’s amazing what beauty can be found right around the corner.

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Isn’t it full of the most beautiful fall colors you’ve ever seen?? (This picture is 100% unedited & straight from the camera.) That orange may just be my most favorite color ever.

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Bring on the pumpkins & mulled cider!! And Halloween. Halloween is also my favorite.

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What’s your favorite season? Are you a fall fan? Does winter win? Spill.

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Rusty

Last night I let Bruce {our dog} out for last call and stood on our small back deck enjoying the gorgeous fall weather. Out of the corner of my eye I saw some movement on our next door neighbor’s back deck. A furry creature wearing an eye mask was staring back at me.

I’ll be honest; at first I was a little freaked out. The little bugger was all of about 14′ away at me very much aware of my presence. I reflected our back porch light in his general direction & tried to take a picture of him. He climbed up the vines & window grates next door.

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After staring at each other for a few minutes {& putting Bruce back inside}, we mutually decided neither was threat.

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Naturally I ran inside to get my camera. When I reemerged from the house, I found the culprit had curled up in the corner of the 2nd story fire escape

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Meet our fuzzy new friend.

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While he laid curled up in the corner of their fire escape,

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I climbed out on ours and took pictures of him.

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I think he found the flash rather bothersome but, instead of being aggressive, he curled into a tighter little ball.

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I’ve WE’VE named him Rusty. I wonder if he’ll be a regular or is just passing through. As cute as I think he is, I’d just as soon he move along. I don’t need him & Bruce tangoing in the yard anytime soon.

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Is your place filled with wildlife? Or are squirrels the wildest it gets?

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Simple Ideas are Rarely Simple

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You know when you have a seemingly simple idea and you suddenly realize it’s not so simple?

How, after additional {crucial} research, what you expected to be able to do one way now proves it needs to happen this whole other way?

And that other way wasn’t something you were prepared for. It wasn’t what you bought materials for or planned on doing.

And you find yourself at a crossroad.

You can either figure out the new solution for your original vision. Buy new materials and make it happen.

Or scrap the original vision and improvise. Make due with the materials you have and embrace the outcome.

You know that feeling?

That’s where I’m at.

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How To: Make a Bed Skirt

Making a custom bed skirt isn’t hard {promise!} but there are several steps. Stick with me & I’ll walk you through it.

First, lets take a look at what we want to make. The final product:

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{I think knowing what the goal is helps in understanding the process.}

I made the bed skirt while visiting my parents. Mom’s got a great sewing set-up and we’re still living out of boxes. Our bed is the same size {queen} and height {14″} as the one in their guest room. Having a template made things super easy; pin, sew, fit, tweak, sew, etc.

For the sake of clarity, we’re going to call the panels left, middle, & right. ‘Height’ is the vertical dimension & ‘width’ is the horizontal dimension.

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I purchased 4.5 yards of fabric because I wanted enough for our headboard but 2.5 yards would have been plenty for just the skirt {using 54″ wide fabric).

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First, wash & dry your fabric. You don’t want things to shrink after you’ve spent an entire afternoon {ok ok…. DAY} making this thing. Pre-shrink people.

After I laundering, I laid it out on the box spring {a nice flat surface!} so I could cut out the piece for the headboard. The strip on the left is also the right height for the middle panel.

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You want enough height so the skirt hangs just above your carpet, 1/2″ for a hem & about 2-4″ to go over the top of the box spring {to be hidden under the mattress}. For me, 16-18″ high worked well.

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Then I cut the side pieces. 54″ wide fabric / 3 pieces = 18″ high each

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If I were to make this again, I would just use these 3 pieces for the bed skirt. It would save fabric & just be easier.

2nd cut

IRON EVERYTHING. Or iron it after you first take it out of the dryer. Either way, iron it.

I also ironed & pinned up the hem at this point.

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By pinning up the hem now, I was able to fit the bed skirt to the correct height without having to worry about hemming it later. Don’t sew it in though! Just pin.

Pin the panels around the box spring, wrong side out.

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Make sure it’s even at the bottom. I found sticking a pin through the edge of box spring kept things from slipping.

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Pin the corners together. Make sure the seams are evenly placed on both corners. You wouldn’t want one seam to be back closer to the headboard, while the other seam is firmly on the foot of the bed. Make sense?

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Then pin the top of the corners together {making a little corner pocket}.

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Time to sew.

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Sew up the seams where the left & right panels join to the middle panel.

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Be sure to flatten the ironed in hem before sewing up the edges. You want be able to fold up the hem after the side seams are sewn in.

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{At this point, you should serge the edges but I forgot.}

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After the sides are stitched together, sew the corners. {Again, serge the edges but I forgot. If you serge them, serge both separately, NOT together. You want to iron the seam open & flat with finished/serged edges.} You can cut off the excess that’s in the corners after you sew it. Just be sure to leave 1/4-1/2″ seam allowance.

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Sew the hem.

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Back up to the box spring. Right side out, pin it back on the box spring.

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Time to fill in the middle. I used a cheap old IKEA sheet I had lying around {I think it retailed for $1.99}. It’s a twin and almost the perfect size. Spread it out.

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Starting at one corner, pin the sheet to the top of the bed skirt, covering all your messy raw edges.

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Make sure that it’s ONLY pinned to the bed skirt, not to the box spring.

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On the left side, there was a good amount of extra. Just fold it under and pin. You’ll cut the excess off after you sew it together.

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There’s going to be extra at the top too but don’t worry about that yet.

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Starting about 5″ down from the top of the left side, top stitch all the way around. {You’ll see why you don’t start at the very top in a minute.}

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In the middle of the middle panel, I left a little slot for the cord to our heated mattress pad.

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Be sure to lock your stitches here by sewing backward & then forward again on the seam.

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Going around the corner is easiest if you leave the needle down & rotate the fabric around it.

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Stop sewing when you’re about 5″ away from the top of the right panel.

Fold the bed skirt in half, lining up the left & right panels at the bottom corners and smoothing it out to the top. The top edges of the right & left panels will probably be uneven. Fold them back so they’re even, iron & stitch ’em up.

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{My mother would have serged these edges first but I didn’t. Sorry Mom.}

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Now that top edges of the left & right panels are hemmed, stitch them to the sheet just like you did everything else.

Remember that extra sheet you folded under on the left side?
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Serge {or cut} it off, so you don’t have so much extra in your way. Be sure to leave at least 1/4″ seam allowance on the back side. {Almost done. Promise!}

You will be left with a good amount of extra sheet hanging off the top. Spread the bed skirt flat out on the floor.

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Fold the excess sheet over. Iron {the crease helps to stop it from shifting around}. Sew.

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Serge edge to get rid of all that extra sheet.

AND YOU’RE DONE!!

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With the Heated Mattress Pad

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The cord cannot be trapped in between the mattress & box spring but I didn’t want it sticking out over the bed skirt either. The hole allows the plug to come through, plug into the pad, & still be completely hidden behind the skirt. The cord then goes under the bed & plugs into the headboard wall.

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You can see the plug under the sheet but it’s totally hidden with the duvet/comforter on. The cord is also completely undetectable behind the bed skirt.

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That’s a win.

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I know this was really {REALLY!} long but I tried to be as detailed as possible. I hope you find it coherent & helpful. If anything is unclear, let me know & I’ll explain it more.

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Happy sewing!

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Shoe Organization

It’s not quite done yet but the shoe organization project is in process. I found these at KMart, which surprised me. I went looking for white shoe cubbies and KMart was the only place that I found exactly what I was looking for. It’s not a place I usually check but a pleasant surprise.

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Eventually, it’ll look like this:

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All in good time, my friends.

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Bedskirts & Broomsticks

You may have noticed our bed looking a little naked when we showed you our shagalicious new rug.

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This weekend, that changed.

While visiting my parents this weekend, I spent some time with a dear friend ~ Juki.

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We haven’t spent this much time together since my mom & I made bridesmaids dresses for our wedding. It was awesome! I’ve missed sewing and jumping in with an easy project was nice. By the end of the weekend, I finished our custom bedskirt and am thrilled with how it turned out!

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See?! No more naked box spring. WOOT!

I took pictures of how I made it. It’s a large but relatively easy project. Would you be interested in a ‘How To’?

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{I lied about the broomstick part.}

Update: Click here for the How To.

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Shrink Wrapped

Our windows are crap. We plan on using our $8,000 rebate money to replace them but, after calling the IRS, we learned that the 4-6 week turn-around originally advertised has turned into a 12-16 week wait. Guess it was popular.

Needless to say, new windows for this winter just aren’t happening. To help curb the draftiness, we are turning to a less-than-pretty but oh-so-practical solution. Plastic.

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Directions are pretty simple.

  1. Double-stick tape around frame. Wait 15 minutes
  2. Adhere plastic top to bottom
  3. Blowdry to shrink until taut

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We’ve only done 1 window so far but plan on doing the rest {at least on the 1st & 3rd floors}. We’ll let you know if we think it’s working as the season progresses. It’s less noticable than first feared. If we can get the curtains hung anytime before 2010, it’ll be totally hidden.

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Shagged

A little while back, I confessed that we didn’t own rugs. They’re typically expensive little suckers.

But we needed one. Not “needed” because it would help the design of the room {which it does} or simply because we ought to have one. Needed because all our floors are hardwoods. Gorgeous newly refinished hardwood floors. But in the month we’ve lived here full-time, I’ve found the slightly annoying thing about hardwood floors.

You constantly feel the grit on the bottom of your feet.

I swiffer but {to be completely honest} I don’t like cleaning. There. I said it. I don’t like to clean. I do what I have to so things aren’t gross but I’m not winning any awards.

I hate feeling grit on my feet but I also constantly walk around barefoot. I don’t want to get the furniture dirty, so before I put my feet up on the sofa or ottoman I wipe my feet on my pant legs. I don’t want grit in bed, so before crawling in…. I wipe my feet on my pant legs.

What one fails to realize when wiping said feet on said pant legs is that you’ve now just transferred the grit from your feet to your pant leg. Therefore, it is now IN YOUR BED. barf. This leads to more frequent sheet changes which counteracts my desire to clean less.

A rug would solve this problem.

I’ve been keeping my eye out and was starting to think we’d have to spend several hundreds to get the size we needed. I wanted something that would go under the bed and stick out enough on both sides; 10′ wide seemed ideal. I found one from CB2 that I really liked but the 8’x10′ size was $599.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!! HA! HAHA!!

After looking at other websites, that was starting to sound reasonable. $600 for a grit-wiper just idn’t gonna happen.

A few weeks ago while wandering through what’s quickly becoming my 2nd home, I happened upon a rug that just might work. Thanks Home Depot!

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It’s a multi-color shag with tans & creams & a slight sheen to some strands.

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I wasn’t originally thinking shag but the price! $199 for 8’x10′?! I could love it for that price.

Couple days later, I get Home Depot’s promo email. All area rugs 20% off with FREE SHIPPING. Online only.

Took Rob back to Home Depot and, while he doesn’t love shag, agreed the price & colors were right. Went home & ordered it.

{Well, actually I agonized over it until the last day of the sale and THEN ordered it.} It should also be noted that since purchasing, Home Depot has continued their “20% off All Area Rugs” sale, so maybe it’s something they do regularly.

It was waiting on my porch about 4 days earlier than expected.

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It then stood, in the corner of our bedroom for about a week.

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But last night was the night.

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We cleared out the bed.

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Then laid down the rug pad & shaggy rug. The shag was all smooshed flat {technical term} from being rolled. See the darker spot toward the right? That’s where we started fluffing up the fibers.

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If you’re really analyzing the picture, I should note we shifted it away from the wall {left side of pic} about 5″ before putting the bed back. I wanted more rug exposed at the foot of the bed. Like so –

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{from the hall looking into the room} {you can see we scooted it toward the mantle a little}

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We choose Mohawk Home’s Constellation rug in ‘Glimmer’. The color is lighter than pictured on the Home Depot website. We purchased it after seeing it in the store, so it was exactly what we were expecting.

It lists for $199 but it was 20% off with free shipping. I wish it could’ve been $159.20 but we also had to pay sales tax. That brought us to just about $170 for the rug. We spent another $33 on the 6’x9′ rug pad but I think it’s money well spent. I can definitely feel the difference.

Since the pad is so much shorter than the rug, we cheated it down a bit. The pad cushions the rug sticking out at the bottom of the bed and stops about 2′ before the rug does nearer the headboard {if that makes sense}.

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There it is! Our very first grown-up rug and it didn’t break the bank. I love the colors and the texture. It looks so good with the curtains & headboard fabric.

This morning before Rob left for work he said to me, “This rug was a good buy. I like it.” And I couldn’t agree more.

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